Above all, trust in the slow work of God. We are quite naturally impatient in everything to reach the end without delay.
We should like to skip the intermediate stages.
We are impatient of being on the way to something unknown, something new.
Yet it is the law of all progress that is made by passing through some stages of instability and that may take a very long time... Give our Lord the benefit of believing that his hand is leading you, and accept the anxiety of feeling yourself in suspense and incomplete.
Above all, trust in the slow work of God. - Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

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Thursday, May 10, 2012

Dating and Marriage

When analyzing ethics in any context, considering the intention and purpose behind an act is essential.  As we continue to study sexuality and relationships, we will look at the intentions behind dating and marriage.  Some modern trends suggest that people seek out marriage and relationships that offer 'self-expansion' or a partner that makes their life more interesting.  A recent op-ed article in the New York Times examined this changing phenomenon.  According to the US Conference of Catholic Bishops, marriage works when there is open communication, commitment and shared values/faith.  The intention here is much more focused on self-sacrifice instead of self-fulfillment.  The focus is on the other and your 'new life together' instead of being focused on yourself and what the relationship/person is giving to you (part of the argument in the NYTimes article).  Certainly (I'd imagine) at this stage in your life, you are not necessarily thinking about life-long commitments.  However, based in your reading of these two articles, what are your intentions in relationship?  What do you look for, desire, hope for?  In addition to reflecting on your own intentions, analyze those intentions.  Do they reflect modern society and/or Christian values?
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